There is something that has been disturbing me about how men and women approach love, sex & relationships.
I have a couple of friends who keep falling to the same trick and traps set up by guys, the routine goes like this.
They are always getting out of a terrible relationship which they shouldn’t have been in the first place; then shortly thereafter they meet a guy who seems to be the perfect guy, so they pursue.
They guy obviously is skilled at his art, so he plays his part accordingly. Before long the chile has already fallen in love with the guy and started making plans for their future.
When the guy learns of the plans and how serious their relationship is going, he is awakened.
So the guy even though he really enjoys the good times, declares that this is far as he is willing to go. He lets the girl off easy and moves on.
The girl is devastated and swears off men only to repeat the cycle again.
Now my question is how comes chilez like my two friends do not see this coming? They have gone through it once, yet they expect the next guy to be different? I just don’t get it.
Maybe that’s why there are so many bitter ladies out there. Claiming men are dogz. Which some are, but if you already know that why put yourself in their mouth and expect their dog teeth not to chew you up?
Perhaps it’s the eagerness to be loved or to have a man; otherwise it doesn’t make sense to me.
Any ladies want to shed some light on this?