If you observe carefully your girlfriend will once in a while take a quick, seemingly unintentional glance at a guy without you, sometimes the guy or anyone else noticing.
I hope the ladies will own up to it because not only do you do it, it is human nature to do so. One sees something or someone they are attracted to or intrigued by and they are drawn to it, him or her, nothing wrong with it at all.
The truth is women are inherently gracious and beautiful even in the simplest matters of life.
They are subtle and unassuming, drawing you to them, hiding their desires deeper than skin deep unlike men. They dance with you desire, daring you to scratch and find out if they seek nourishment from the fountain of your manhood.
They are truly lovely creatures and remarkable to watch. The way a lady with good manners and morals goes about her life is a thing of beauty to observe.
And then there is us, Mankind.
We are truly a different species, astonishingly opposite and sometimes rudimentary in our approach to most things in life. Most of us like cars, speed, gadgets, porn movies, regular and cat-fights, sports, beer and our original sin; lustful desires.
We have our great qualities such as fiscal control of the world economy but we lack in subtleness among other not so straight women-like qualities.
Hence when we see an attractive woman walk by or sitting across in a restaurant, we do not glance, we blatantly stare. Often times for longer periods than is humanly advisable.
Our stare is lustful, purposeful and fixated on what most attracts us in that woman. If it is a beautiful face, we draw a radius and focus on it. If she happens to be blessed with a perky, perfectly shaped set of twins — the kind that you know God must have been smiling when he worked on them; our eyes match each one and for a moment we are lost in nature’s best strapped secret.
We have changed routes to work or school, passed our destination just to follow the bouncing perfect booty; moving up and down as it jiggles in front of us, following along with our eyes moving up and down in tennis-watching-rhythm like sequence.
We try hard (especially when our wives and girlfriends are with us) not to look but…the results never reflect our efforts.
At the least we can take comfort in knowing that you too ladies do it; only in a more sophisticated gracious fashion.