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ManA: you don’t treat me well and don’t care about me, when is the last time we spend quality time together….
ManB:….blah blah (I can only hear one end of the conversation)
ManA: its like every time I want us to spend time you are always busy, remember last weekend, I was there the whole Saturday and you didn’t…
ManB:….blah blah
ManA: What? I only worked half day, we could have done something in the afternoon, and I am not even saying like go out for movies or anything….. just even the park, or cook together, I don’t know (voice becoming heavier…)
ManB:…and so on and so forth
ManA: I am serious we don’t spend any quality time together
ManB: ….something something
ManA: so what do you want me to do, I can’t take this…are you ashamed of going out in public with me
{now starting to sob and slur in speech}
ManB: something else, something else
ManA: but you keep saying that, you keep saying that…hmmm…but you never do anything
ManB: what about this and that
ManA: that was like a month ago…I don’t know, I just don’t know
ManB: what, what, now?
ManA: I have to go I am at work….sobs….sobs….
ManB: something…something
ManA: Because I don’t hang up that’s why!…sobs more
manB: whatever
ManA: I have to go really….sobs last time…hangs up.
key
ManA: my workmate sits 5 paces from my desk
ManB: The dude on the other end of the conversation, the boyfriend I suppose, who doesn’t do anything like cook and spend quality time with ManA.
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I don’t know what your opinion is on gayness but it was the weirdest thing to sit and listen to a jamaa on the phone sobbing and conversing on relationship matters, knowing very well it’s another DUDE on the other side of the phone.
I support gay rights and I believe every person has a right to choose who they sleep with and not be discriminated by society for it.
My support is legal, a civic duty; socially though I reserve the right to be weirded by such situations as above or equally worse (and recently witnessed) a grey haired man fabulously hanging a female handbag from his should and strolling as if nothing is awkward about it.
We are definitely living in a different world!
Hillarious!!!!!!!
now me I am reading that and thinking “huh, kwani Man U as in the football team are now called Man A and then who is Man B? Chelsea maybe.”
So according to evidence provided above, the next time a chic is going on and on about not spending quality time with her significant male other- that male other can never “iiiiiiiisssssssshhhhhhhhhh women!”.Becoz clearly it is not just women who go on and on and on and on and on about spending time.
@3TOC: Don’t dis Chelsea up in here, you’re outnumbered. We’ll clobber you.
Point noted about guys who don’t pay enough attention to their significant others, lakini does Man A rate as a dude kweli?
So does this mean that nagging, bitching and crying is not so much female, but a phenomena that is induced by men! (ducking all those fists being shaken at me!)
what are those mathogothanio on my name? I WANT my T&J
It is a different world indeed! ROFL! 🙂
The end is near. I still cannot support gay unions.
Hayaaa… much as everyone is entitled to some rights, I feel nothing for gay tendancies(no offence 2 anyone), for chics maybe just maybe… but guys… how? Traditions much as they hold us back from exploring, they also save us trouble with some explorations…
Kweli times have changed! I would also find it weird to hear such nagging, bitching (don’t crucify me HnH said it) from a man.
wow…errrmmm..if it was a kawa conversation then I’d be okie wit it..but a man sobbing on the phone kwanza?? okie that’s just weird
sounds like an interesting conversation. Lakini folks, gay or otherwise, need not be discussing their private manenos in open spaces. That is all I ask.
did u see, California just made it legal for gay couples to marry. I am all for it! 😀
Now that’s some funny ish right there. Cali is very liberal so that was bound to happen but here in the South that story was shut down tene, no same sex marriage going down.
Gay relationships when they have drama are even worse than guy gal I tell you!
personally, i too do not discriminate, legally, against gays or lesbians..but it still feels weird to meet a dude who talks in a more chickish manner than you…
or a chick who makes a move on you, though i havent experienced that either…
thats fu**ked up SH***T .. i am taking notes.
and modo says…o-okay!
I had a similar conversation not so long ago. I played the part of ManB.
I have on occassion been accused of being unfeeling 😦
Kumbe dudez also whine!?! Gaynes is just freakin weird!